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I’ve learned it the hard way…
Hi, my name is Maurice Zondag.
Like you, I’ve struggled. And like you, I still have my challenges. But 6 years ago I had a profound insight that I think will really benefit you. And if you’ll allow me, I’d like to share it with you here…After a painful divorce that lead to the loss of my home … bankruptcy … and near suicidal depression … I looked up from the rock bottom pit I found myself in. Through tears of pain and sorrow, I thought: “I don’t know how much more of this I can take. I simply can’t go on unless something changes … AND NOW!” It was at that moment I had a realization that shook my life to its foundation. It was like seeing the matrix …. like I could see the code of life itself. It was in this “peak experience” that I discovered what I call “The 5 Sources of Happiness.” And 1 source in there is most definitely masculinity, I even got to do a TED talk about it.
So I learned about what it means to be a man. How I had to reinvent myself, learn the traits that were covered deep down inside of me. How I could change my life through mindset and action taking, taking control in my life. My happiness.
I experimented, failed, got up again and kept fighting to find ‘me’.
Now it is your turn, and I want you to succeed, fast!
“We all learn from our mistakes.
But it’s smarter to learn from other one’s mistakes”.
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So I learned about what it means to be a man. How I had to reinvent myself, learn the traits that were covered deep down inside of me. How I could change my life through mindset and action taking, taking control in my life. My happiness.
I experimented, failed, got up again and kept fighting to find ‘me’.
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